Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Wilde Send a private message.
That's too bi an age gap at that young an ae in my view. The general rule I'm told the French invented this is an appropriate age is half the man's age plus 7 years.
Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Hierophant Send a private message. I agree with Wilde. IMO when a grown man involves himself with teenagers it suggests he is looking to take advantage of lesser experienced person Can spare us all the 'mature for her age' drivel Either way, were I her father I'd want to kick the shit out of you!
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HikerVeg Send a private message. This falls under catergory of "if you have to ask, then you already know answer. Hgfit12 Send a private message. I dated a 34 year old when I was At the time, I didn't see anything wrong with it. But now I am 29 and see it totally different.
At my age then, although I was mature for my age, I hadn't experienced enough, lived enough, gone through enough, to be on an adults level. And personally, more than likely, he doesn't see anything serious with you.
I don't say that in offense. I say it bc I see things like that now.
ThisGal Send a private message. So, I don't know, I'm on the fence here because IMO, in the bedroom is where a lot of us seem to carry out things that are going on in our psyche and if you need a man to dominate and control you for whatever reasons - then that's your decision. Deep down, there is probably a psychological reason to why I have always dated older men. But I am now old enough to endure it.
My boyfriend is 40 and I'm I don't even think about the age difference.
But I truly always have been more mature than most for my age. Him and I are on the same level and we work well together. Life will beat you down, drag you through hell, break your heart, inspire you, make you change your mind times on your beliefs, etc. I have just felt that I've gotten more grounded with who I am within the past 3 years!
Barrington Send a private message. I have to say tho.
18 and 34 year old dating 26, and im dating a 19 year old. But mainly because women in my age group such as yourself are all dating 40 year olds. So how can you shame men for dating women ? What adds to the insanity is that when i wasthe women in my age group were dating men To say the only reason a man would date a 19 year old would be to take advantage of them or because they are childish is ignorant and judgemental. From my personal experience, women in our age group pay attention to guys way older than us for the first 30 years of our life, so perhaps a guy in his late 20s just wants the chick who pays attention to them in return.
A 19 year old may change over time, and may have some ignorance. But whose to say the difference in wisdom is no different than the difference in wisdom of those who are in thier 20s with 30s?
Or 30s with 40s? The gaining of wisdom does not cease whether you are in a relationship or not, so a 19 year old may mature into a state in which they themselves can decide whether or not to leave the relationship. Nothing is permenant and there are no rules which govern love. Maybe you all have the wisdom of age confused with bitterness, cynicism, and judgementality.
Which seem to be the main traits that differ between a year old and a Is he willing to introduce himself to your dad? Is he willing to state his intentions with 18 and 34 year old dating Are they matrimonial or merely sexual? What's "bad" is subjective, meaning it means different things to different people. What you need to be asking is, is this right for you? Don't count how you "feel" about him as feeling will lead you astray Instead decide what he has to offer you Ir's my opinion that at 19, you are still not ready to date someone that much more experienced and older.
I understand you probably love him but again, that's a feeling and you need to assess facts.
He's too old for you. If you wait until you're 30 and he's 43, you may find you're closer in age than you are now. Probably too much different in where they are in life, but there is always counterexamples. It seems to depend on where you live, for example in a little more extreme example and switching genders in France you have Macron's wife could be the next first lady of France, in the USA you have LeTourneau convicted felon.
He's 39, she's He;s actually pretty tame for a French politician. But you're right, France has different mores about such relationships.
Well she first met him when he was 15 and was his drama teacher. I don't know when it started, but it is reported meaning I cannot be sure of the truth that she would not promise his father to back off until he was She was married and had three children. Yeah too things apply differently, younger men and France.
I hope the 18 year old girl is out of secondary school and the 32 yr old is not her teacher, and not in the USA, or there is jail time to consider. She's also said he didn't begin to convince her until he was Frankly, that would not be my choice. Sorry, but the wild wild west is over with.